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Showing posts with label Relationships in Negotiations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships in Negotiations. Show all posts

Sunday 29 October 2023

The Importance of Relationship Building in Negotiations

Experienced negotiators know the importance of building a personal relationship before going into a negotiation process. Negotiations involve two parties, usually an organisation and its Suppliers, trying to come to a deal in which both parties may want a different outcome.

 

In most, if not all, negotiating scenarios, the best deals and compromises are reached between an organisation and its Suppliers, where the parties involved in the negotiating process are removed from the day-to-day operational and administrative tasks of trading.

 

Operational and administrative staff within organisations rarely, if ever, formulate or write the technical specifications upon which an organisation describes the needs of its Suppliers. On this basis alone, negotiations with Suppliers should be undertaken and led by those who have an intimate knowledge of the technical specification upon which the negotiation will be based.

 

Those negotiating with Suppliers must have an objective view of what is being negotiated and a clear understanding of an organisation's strategic needs without political or operational bias. A successful negotiating process must balance an organisation's strategic and tactical needs.

 

Operational and administrative staff are deeply involved with the tactical needs of an organisation and often lack the strategic clarity and visionary intent required in the negotiating process, and as such, should be involved in, but not lead, negotiating processes to balance an organisation's strategic and tactical needs.

 

An organisation and its Suppliers must be able to negotiate with each other within a scenario where neither side is viewed as more potent than the other, as each party is equally reliant on the other to create a mutually profitable trading opportunity. Organisations must lead the negotiating process to ensure that Suppliers understand their requirements to enable Suppliers to meet them profitably.

 

A personal relationship with an organisation’s Suppliers against whom the organisation will be negotiating prevents an adversarial relationship from souring the deal before it starts. If an organisation’s negotiation Stakeholders see themselves as adversaries in a confrontation with an organisation’s Suppliers, both sides tend to become defensive and reactive.

 

An overly heated atmosphere and anger can unravel the most carefully planned negotiation process. However, much can be done to avoid the problems and issues when an organisation tries to establish a “personal relationship” with its Suppliers, who will be on the other side of the negotiating table.

 

If an organisation and its Suppliers did not have divergent needs, negotiations would not be needed. Both parties within a negotiation process will be asking the other to give up something within the negotiation, which can create a problematic atmosphere.

 

If an organisation’s Suppliers believe that the organisation is genuinely looking for a mutually beneficial deal, the organisation is far more likely to make a concession. It is always good to remember that business is business and that an organisation must establish itself as the leader in the negotiation process as it has the requirement to fulfil, which it knows the intricacies of best.

 

Negotiation stakeholders should never make personal attacks or attribute any combative exchange between an organisation and its Suppliers to malice on the part of their opponent. In this situation, asking for even a tiny concession can be seen as an encroachment or an attempt to take advantage of the other party.

 

When things become tense in a negotiation, it is always best to suggest a break. Taking some time away from the negotiating table can help the parties within a negotiation process steer the conversation back to a more convivial personal relationship. It always pays not to take things personally.

 

Understanding what a Supplier wants from the negotiation can help an organisation to get what they want. It is wise to remember to get to know the negotiators' positions from the other side and the people with whom an organisation is negotiating. Focusing on seeking their cooperation can be the element that closes a deal.

 

A good negotiator will build a personal rapport with the person against whom they will be negotiating before they even get to the table, emphasising the importance of maintaining a professional but personable approach to managing an organisation’s supply base.

 

The key is for the negotiator to frame themselves as a friend first and a negotiator second to the Supplier, transforming the relationship between the parties in negotiation from competitors to co-operators to provide a positive perspective on the Supplier that an organisation is negotiating with.

 

Positive negotiation relationships are meaningful with Suppliers because they engender trust, which is vital to securing an organisation’s best negotiating position with Suppliers. Consideration of a proposal action entails a risk. People view negotiations and the associated risks as more acceptable when a proposal is made by someone they trust.

 

People tend to respond to negotiations with similar reactions, as research in the social sciences has found. If an organisation cooperates and treats its Suppliers with trust and respect, Suppliers tend to respond in kind. Effective leadership within the negotiating process is crucial to securing a successful outcome.

 

The nature of reciprocal trust reinforces the value of taking time to get to know and understand the other party to build rapport with them before an organisation begins to negotiate. It is important not to assume that an organisation can form a bond simply by exchanging a few friendly e-mails before meeting in person. Instead, they should forge a personal connection before the negotiation process begins.



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